I slipped 4 discs, got sciatica, chronic back and neck pain and spent 10 months being unable to walk. I was a university rower, that injured in a training accident.
After seeing 9 experts - physios, osteopaths, chiropractors and doctors all who couldn’t help me I eventually found Ann Redgrave who was a doctor for the GB rowing squad and she said “you’ve got 2 choices Alexander Technique or Surgery” . She then told me surgery had a 50% chance of being paralyzed from the waist down. As you could expect, I was desperate to learn more about the Technique and connected with multiple teachers who came through their own injuries. It was difficult for me because I was taking so many pain killers but after 3 months I was walking again. And although I went on to slip discs a total of 7 times doing all kinds of other sports and activities, each time I put myself back into with very simple exercises I can personally teach you.
I'm going to show you one simple exercise here. But I do want to give you a word of warning. It can be painful to do this by yourself. If you experience pain, stop and contact me before going any further. Watch the video to see the exercise.
This is a very gentle hands on technique that helps with Back Pain, Neck Pain, Sciatica, Slipped Discs, Shoulder Pain, RSI, Osteoarthritis, Chronic Pain, Scoliosis, Hypermobility, Pregnancy-Related Discomfort And Pain, High Blood Pressure, Insomnia, Asthma, Poor posture, Stroke Recovery, Headaches and Migraines, as well as many other pain related conditions. This works alongside the natural functioning of your body.
We work on a table and sitting and standing in a chair. Most of our bad habits that cause us pain are accumulated in these positions. If we can improve our use in these positions, we can do the same in other ones too. There is no cracking joints back into place.
As a comparison, if you have back pain and go to a chiropractor, they will know where everything needs to move. But they will use force and won't show you how to fix the root cause of the pain. The effects of their adjustments can wear off quickly, which is why you have to keep going back.
So this exercise is just a taste of what we will cover...and not a full solution. But I can show you how to recover from back pain using simple techniques...that once you have them...you can reuse them for life. So book your free taster session now to start your journey towards a pain free life today.
Or more accurately head facing forwards and going up. This direction or movement is commonly mistaken (as it was by me) as the head and neck going forwards. Or the head tipping backwards, instead of going up. This largely stems from our startle pattern. We will continue to misdirect ourselves unless we stop first. Also if the neck isn;t free to the degree required the these problems will keep manifesting themselves. The head counts as everything above your eyes and the top of the neck and the base of your skull.
A few degrees at most. Anything beyond that and the head and neck go forwards, creating misuse. The head goes forwards and down, the neck shortens and goes forwards, the rips collapse and fix, causing the diaphragm to tighten along with the abdominals and the hips tip back creating pressure on the lower back / lumbar vertebrae.
There is an overall shortening of the stature and it’s harder to breathe. Tipping the head back causes very similar problems but in slightly different areas. The back of the neck will be gripping harder. The head and neck going forwards will put more pressure on your ribs and breathing. They both cause a loss of tone throughout the body and contribute to shortening and “crows feet” or hypertension on your neck. Because your head weighs about 10 or 11 pounds the heaviest density part of the body, if it’s misdirected tension is ricocheted all throughout the body to compensate.
The best way to start dealing with this is by spending time in semi supine. Yes it helps to think of your head going up. Thinking of the crown of your head pointing at the sky. But it’s equally important, if not more, to avoid pulling your head down. For example if we pass someone in the street we tend to avoid eye contact by pulling our head down to avoid contact with a stranger. You could just as easily not make eye contact by looking somewhere else without moving your head. Instead we choose to pile pressure down our spine by pulling the head forwards and down. You might say ‘but that is how I look away’ and that would be a grave misuse. You don’t have to move your neck and head to move your eyes. This kind of movement is also the opposite of confidence. It’s shrinking and making yourself less approachable. There are many ways in which we pull the head out of shape. You have to remember a few basic points to help with this.
When riding I was told to hold the reins so they gathered up the horses head. If you pull hard on the reins it would really crush the neck of the horse and would be the equivalent of pulling the head down and neck backwards for us, except you would have someone pulling on it! Ouch! Not letting the reins be too loose because that would allow the neck to drop forwards and pull the head back. When a horse has a person sitting on their back they need support to counter this weight. This is a huge responsibility for the rider and plays an important role in the efficiency of the horse's movement and communication. True the horse’s spine is in the horizontal plane, not vertical like ours but the same principles apply.
There’s a war going on in your own body and you might not even know it’s happening. Sure you get the pain in your knees, but no matter what stretches and core stability exercises you do the pain persists. So it might surprise you to find out that there is a very deep relationship between your neck, head and back that cause knee pain. When your body gets into bad habits such as the head pulling back, neck shortening and the hips being fixed it can over tighten our inner thighs, quadriceps and hamstrings to the point where we create pressure on out knee cap. Yes, we do it to ourselves.
The knee joint has very little wrong with it, but becomes the fall guy for the rest of the body’s misuse. The way that the psoas muscle is attached to the spine, pelvis and top of the femur is complicated by how the inner thigh attaches to the front of the pelvis and femur. This arrangement means that if one over tightens so does the other. They are both in it together. To be honest there are so many muscles around the hips, I generally refer to it as the clapham junction (a station with probably the most platforms in the UK!) of muscle in the body. The gluteus maximus or butt muscles can tighten and pull on the hamstrings. The quads can tighten and create a huge amount of tension on the trunk, in particular but not exclusive to the lower back.
So practically speaking how do we prevent this tightening up from happening?
1) Imagine you are alone on a desert island, you have eaten your favourite meal, you’re immune to alcohol and you’ve just drank 10 pints of guinness! Now that might sound like a lot, but we hold onto our bellies like mad. Vanity, fear, instability; it doesn’t matter. You need to let it go. It needs to release. Put some cushions or books behind your hips to stop them from tipping backwards.
2) Walk for 20 minutes or more, slowly whilst imagining your knees are becoming increasingly heavier. Very very heavy in fact. Your knees need to be allowed to hang from your hips. That will creates a natural stretch that takes pressure off the back and the legs.
3) Also think of your hips dropping away from the top of your neck. I know that it might seem like your shortening the distance between your knees and hips, but don’t worry about that. It really is about a counter balance of forces. Dropping your hips allows more release in the inner thighs.
So the knee joint really is just taking the punishment for the rest of the body. It’s tension building up and it’s not to say that you can’t do damage this way. You can, bones rubbing on joints from misuse will cause pain. I did something similar to this but by collapsing my back which slipped my discs causing my vertebrae to rub together and putting pressure on the sciatic nerve. But when people don’t collapse they can get hernias from holding their bellies in place. Or the tension comes out in the knee joint.
You can’t get rid of tension, you can only redistribute it. And all of us go wrong in some way, but we do it in very individual ways. There are as many different ways of going wrong as there are people, but they do follow some common patterns. It’s also worth doing semi supine, because this really will take the pressure off you back and the knee. It’s very important to remember to keep your legs bent or only have one leg at a time out straight in this position. Of course if you don’t stop and give yourself time to be in semi supine the effect will not be as great.
Tension and twisting in the back happen the moment we do something. It’s like we have blocked out all our ability or sense to feel this when it happens. We become so outwardly focused that we can’t acknowledge what we’re doing with ourselves. I think a big part of the reason for this is that we aren’t aware of how to prevent this. There seems to be no control when it does get bad we just tell ourselves that we’ll do some stretching or exercises later. But what if later is too late? Wouldn’t it be better if there was something you could do in the moment? Or whenever you felt like it? That is the beauty of the Alexander Technique, it can be done at anytime and can become a part of your life the moment you make the mental leap.
You can give yourself time at any moment. You may well be moving, engaged in an activity. It doesn’t mean you have to stop it, but you do have that choice. When you give yourself time you're saying no to thoughts that are irrelevant to the situation at hand or that make you over excited. There is no need to forget yourself. You mustn't do that. You do want to carry on. Try different paces. Experiment to see if your heart rate, breathing and coordination change positively or negatively.
We can do things too fast or too slow. Your job, should you choose to accept it, is to build your perception. You need to keep your senses engaged and not switch them off or dull them. It’s so easy to say “Yes I know” and stop listening, stop taking in information, stop observing and stop learning. And that’s a huge problem that you’ve given yourself there because when you do that you block out information, and you can only deal it out. When you learn something new, your mind stays in the past. Everything you learn is a different kind of version of what you already know.
I can’t tell you all the factors that go into this but I can tell you that your attitude towards time will make a big difference to how you see things. Of course if you’re in a rush to get things done there’s very little hope of picking up anything new, apart from finding out that you wished you hadn’t rushed and you had given yourself time. Most sensory feedback is given when we are quietened down and listening, when we get into this state, manner or attitude the likelihood of us picking up more sensory feedback or feeling more is much more likely to occur.
So if you want to feel more then you really do have to make that wish to give yourself time, your first choice and you have to make it a strong wish. You also have to expand it and see how your time is affected throughout your life. If you don’t you may find inconsistencies; panicking and rushing in unexpected moments because you haven’t considered what’s important and what’s valuable. Of course if there really is something you do need to take immediate action on then it will become apparent. But most of the time you can make better use of yourself by giving yourself time rather than throwing it away.
Freeing the neck is the first direction in Alexander Technique. It doesn’t matter how much you free your neck if you don’t learn to stop or prevent first. Stopping is your chance to allow bad habits to stop happening. It's something that happens, you don't do it.
So why do we free the neck and why does it come first? The neck is where many important functions happen, heartbeat, coordination, balance and breathing in particular. Some of our neck muscles and cervical vertebrae surround our reptilian brain where all of this processing goes on. If the neck muscles (sternocleidomastoid and trapezius) are tight around this part of the neck; they can shorten and narrow in all sorts of ways. That distorts our relationship with the head, back and rest of the body creating the majority of the startle patterns we individually carve out for ourselves. The most common being the head pulled back and down, upper back collapsing forwards and downwards and the hips tipping back. This tension adds up and masks where we think the top of the neck is. We end up with 3 places.
1) Where’s the top of the neck? You’re immediate reaction to this will tell you where your habitual use is. What part of the body you use as the top of the neck. Put your hand there immediately. HINT if it takes you longer than 2 seconds to find this out you’re doing the next part. Not this part.
2) The conscious perception when we think about it a bit we work out our neck probably finishes where our skull begins.
3) Where it actually is, up between the ears behind the eyes.
Without knowing where the top of the neck starts we will always have a tendency to shorten it. You cannot let go of the shoulder shrug look or trapezius tightening and shortening if you are using your neck as if it ended a the same height as your tongue for example. You won’t be able to give away as much weight in the shoulders because all that tension will carry on in the upper neck.
Well if you just free it, you say “I allow my neck to be free”. If you’ve never had lessons before or you’ve just started this won’t have much of an effect, but you do need to ask it and keep asking. Attitude is also important, you have to talk to yourself in a kind, methodical and calm way. Your body will tighten up if you bark orders at it.
Also you might want to try this when lying down in semi supine. It will make it a lot easier to release the neck muscles if you have the head and back supported. Your head is invited to face forwards and go up in this position. This will minimise any tension being made and give you some idea of what you’re looking for when you’re standing. This is probably the best way to stop chicken head. It’s very easy to start looking for the feeling of your neck being free. My suggestion is that you avoid this. The feelings will happen by themselves, you have to trust that if you are going to make any progress.
Simply giving yourself time and then allowing the neck to be free is all you need to do here. You send the message and wait to see if there’s an answer from your body. Sometimes, especially at the start we might get nothing , the experiences are as variable as the people that try it. So it might happen very easily, but it might take a bit of patience.
You will know when your body is able to carry out this direction when your neck starts to let go and lengthen without any doing on your part and when your neck starts to breathe or move in sync with you ribs or lower ribs. But remember, don’t look for this, send the message and observe what happens. That will go much further than trying to do anything with your neck.
The moment you start to put yourself into a posture or position you start to fix. Your forcing yourself to be there. You're making everything worse. You put one layer of bad habits on top of the ones you've already got. So you're fighting yourself. Eventually you'll give up. Some people might be able to do it for a really long time, others might not be able to do it for very long at all. At some point your body will cave in. And you'll be creating a lot of harm to yourself because when you put your body in a position and hold it, you fix your muscles and that is going to create shortening and tension all over your body.
If you think that you just hold your shoulders in a certain position and that's all it's going to affect, it's not the case. It'll affect your neck, your head, it will affect things in your hips and legs as well. It's going to have a knock on effect all over the body.
So that's what you don't want to do. You don't want to hold your body in a position and fix it into place.
If you want something to do to improve your posture then very simply go for a walk and don't look at the floor. Because if you look at the floor you're going to cause lots of harm to yourself by pulling yourself down. It doesn't mean you can't look at the floor ever, you just have to let your eyes lead the way instead of shortening the neck and pulling the head forward and down. You don't want to be staring at the floor the whole time. Creating that shortening down the front and curving the back into that C shape.
Or do semi supine for 20 mins.
If you look at babies or animals they're not trying to hold themselves up it's easy for them. And they have fantastic posture. Cultures where people aren't conditioned to sit in chairs, like eastern or african cultures they have much better use or posture. They use their backs more efficiently and haven't been sitting in backwards sloping chairs. They're also able to sit in squats in a way that strengthens their back naturally without having to do any kind of work out. They can also walk for miles across the desert with pots of water on their heads. Something that would endanger a bodybuilder. So there is a different strength that is available in the body, but we have to learn how to cultivate that.